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Signs of a cheating wife are subtly different to those of a cheating husband. Statistics tell us that 50% of men who think their partner is cheating are right.

If you suspect your wife might be cheating on you behind your back here are 10 signs that you need to look out for:

1. She pays more attention to her appearance. This could be with her changing her hairstyle, changing her perfume, taking more time doing her hair and nails, or buying new clothes.

2. She makes a conscious effort to lose weight. This might also involve her joining an exercise or yoga class.

3. She spends more time ‘out with the girls’ or having a drink after work.

4. She takes up a new activity such as enrolling on a course or an evening class.

5. She buys you little gifts. This could be a way to keep you off the scent or just because she’s feeling guilty.

6. You notice a difference in your sex life (better, worse or just different).

7. You detect smells of aftershave on her clothes which is different to the type you use.

8. She gets more private when taking phone calls, either by going into a different room to speak or leaving the house soon after the phone rings.

9. She starts receiving suspicious voicemail messages, or you notice new cell phone numbers stored and dialed.

10. She spends more time online than before.

These signs of a cheating wife may not mean anything in isolation, but if you notice a number of them happening you should take them as a warning sign that there’s probably something going on.

If that’s the case, here’s what you must do next…

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Robert II, known as the Pious was a young man who deserved well his nickname. He was very pious, very soft, passing most of his time to pray, compose religious hymns or to drive out the heretics. He was 18 years old when he married Rozala, the daughter of the King of Italy. She was more than thirty years older than him but brought to him as dowry territories which were associated to France.

When his father died, Robert II could reign and repudiated his wife.

Robert seems to be attracted by the women older than him, because quickly, he was dazzled and allured by a young woman who was introduced to him in Orleans: Berta of Burgundy, 27 years old and married with the count of Chartres.

I previously explained that many wars were made because of love. The war which the count of Chartres fought while seizing the town of Melun in the year 991 and besieging Langeais the year 995 is certainly one of these, his fidelity with the Carolingians while not being the only reason. Moreover, Robert II was hoping this war could kill the count of Chartres and that he could finally have the opportunity to convince his future widow to marry him. There was no need to kill the count of Chartres during an unspecified battle: he died because of the continuations of a disease.

Then started the relation between Robert II and Berta.

In these times the marriages were some kind of agreements concluded as of the birth of the children. Women weren’t married with a man whom they had chosen and were often delivered to a man much older than they. Numbers of girls were thus married at 12 or 13 years old with old men being 40 years old more than they were. The widowhood of a young woman did not offer either the advisability to her of choosing her new husband: even being adult and having several children a woman constituted for her family an exchange currency, a good contract and was married with a person chosen by her parents, brothers, uncles, cousins…

Berta choose to marry Robert II because she was in love with him. Without love, she would never have agreed to let the anathema weigh on herself, Robert and France. People in the Middle Age were too much worried about religion and to dare to be opposed to divine justice. Berta and Robert being cousins with the third degree, the necessary exemption to their marriage was not delivered by the pope Gregoire V. Facing the authority, Robert and Berta decided an archbishop to celebrate their union. When he learned their disobedience, the pope joins a synod in Pavia where he pronounced their excommunication.

Several months later, Gregoire V died and Sylvester II succeeded to him. He commuted Robert and Berta to a seven years penitence according to the discipline of the Church: If Robert would refuse to leave Berta he would be anathema. The same sentence was delivered against Berta.

If an excommunication rejected Robert and Berta out of the Church, the anathema condemned them to the damnation which was inconceivable for Middle Age characters. However, they did not yield and became bet. People ran away to their approach, closing doors and windows on their way. Their servants purified by fire the objects they had touched.

Five years later - by regard for Berta who he loved - Robert decided to officially repudiate her under the pretext that their union remained sterile. Then the pope admitted them within the Church. Nevertheless, Berta remained in the palate and continued to sleep each night in Robert bed.

However the pope was not stupid and forced Robert to marry another woman. Constance of Aquitaine was selected and never realized the relations which continued between her royal husband and Berta. Constance was miserly, malicious and cruel, only concerned about herself. She even persecuted her own sons. With her reign appeared the first “troubadours”. These poets came from the South-West of France, had short hair neither bores nor mustache and carried the funny ones of boots with bent end. According to the chronicles, these troubadours involved France in the vice.

However, Robert II kept the hope to obtain the pontifical authorization to divorce Constancy and to marry Berta. He made an inopportune act: he went to see the pope in Rome accompanied with Berta. His request was rejected once again and Robert had to be solved to live in the sin with the one who he loved more than his own life. One of the daughters of Constance and Robert will become the mother of the count of Flanders.

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If your husband is emotionally distant it can be hard to maintain a marriage. If you deeply love your husband and you feel him withdrawing from you, you may begin to think that he’s finding solace in the arms of another woman. The truth is that men pull back for many reasons and chances are that he’s not involved with anyone else at all. If you feel him slipping away, there are things you can do to rebuild the marriage and the love you two once shared.

The reason your husband is emotionally distant may be because of an ongoing conflict between the two of you. Just as women tend to hold onto negative emotions, men often do the same. If the two of you have been at odds about something, be it your children, finances or even where your next vacation should be, that can cause your husband to withdraw. You need to find a solution to the problem now. They say that marriage is almost all compromise, so now may be the time for you to find a middle ground with your spouse so you two can put the issue at hand to rest. If you are sincere about wanting to save the relationship, this is something you’re going to have to do.

Spending more alone time together, can also help if your husband is emotionally distant. In the hustle and bustle of day-to-day married and family life it’s easy for a couple to become disconnected emotionally. Marriage is work and you sometimes just need to schedule time alone together. Find a babysitter and plan for an evening out. A quiet dinner and even a walk can help you two feel closer. You need to do this on a regular basis so the two of you never lose sight of what you mean to one another.

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Countless marriage relationship advice has already been said and written. If you have come to read this article expecting to read the same old tips on how to have a successful marriage then you have another thing coming. We live in a unique time in history. We live in an age where there seems to be many things going on all at once. It is easy to lose oneself in this era and along with it, the things that we should value most in life such as relationships. In a time where there seems to be so many distractions, building a healthy and happy relationship has become a big challenge. This is why I believe that there is a need to formulate a new set of marriage relationship advice. And that’s what this article will attempt to do.

Make developments in technology your ally. There has been a lot of talk on whether technology is a boon or a bane to society in general and to relationships in particular. I say neither. All products of technology are merely tools. And all tools are neither good nor bad. It depends on the people who are going to use the tools to decide whether to use the tools to enhance their lives and the lives of others or to use it for destructive purposes. In order for marriage to work now in our current era, couples need to learn to embrace technology and to use it in order to forge a deeper relationship with one another. With the presence of cell phones, emails, etc., it is now very easy for couple so stay in touch with each another.

Accept non-traditional roles. Much of the problems affecting many couples nowadays have to do with roles in a relationship or in a family. The old delineated structure where men work and act as provider while the women stay at home is an old outdated scheme that is not applicable anymore to the 21st< century. Couples nowadays must be excessively traditional. Women must be open to the possibility of working and sharing the economic burden. Men on the other hand must take their part in taking care of the families' other needs aside from material ones.

The last marriage relationship advice that I will share is something that I believe will work in any era. And that is to keep love and respect a central part of your relationship. If you will follow just one advice from this article then follow this last one.

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Since I often write about saving marriages, regaining the love and spark in your marriage, and restoring intimacy and closeness, I’m often asked what is the best way to react or proceed when you know that you husband wants to leave. The answer to this will greatly depend upon the situation, but I hope to give you options, ideas, help, and support in this article.

First off though, let me say that I generally find there are two different types of situations when a husband wants to leave. The first is the most volatile of the two and often, the husband is being hurtful in letting you know or informing you that he wants to wants to go. Usually, there has been some explosive situation like a huge fight, or the husband deciding to be mean being disrespectful. Often in these situations, the husband will leave no doubt that he has one foot out the door. This highly emotional situation may lead to name calling or hurtful phrases like him telling you that he “doesn’t love or find you attractive anymore,” or things like he’d be better off without you.

I had one woman tell me that her husband told her he wanted to leave because she was overweight. In these situations, it’s so important that you do not give your power away. The husband is being incredibly disrespectful, so before you attempt any communication or negotiations, I believe it is best to call him on it and insist that in moving forward, he treat you in respectful manner. There is virtually no chance in really working things out in a lasting and long term way if he is going to act this way.

Thankfully, many situations I am asked about involve less explosive situations where the husband wants to leave because of distance created, a loss of intimacy (i.e. he’s “fallen out of love,”) or because of external factors that have caused severe stress and strain on the marriage. In these examples, the marriage at one time was a good one and somehow the way has been lost.

In both instances, there are things that I have learned through experience and through research and counseling that you absolutely should not do, even when or if you desperately don’t want your husband to leave. These things may seem natural and right when your husband wants to leave, but they will really backfire in the end because you’ve given your power away and will ultimately make you appear less desirable.

I believe that you should not beg, stalk, engage, argue with, or constantly follow, text, or call your husband. You should not make false promises, appear desperate, or do anything which would elicit negative emotions or reactions.

It’s important to understand that if you want your husband to stay or want him back, you absolutely have to replace the negative feelings between you with positive ones. This may seem overly simplistic but it really isn’t. Husbands who are experiencing loving, affectionate, and empathic feelings toward their wife are much more likely to be receptive to what you have to say and to listen without already knowing the outcome.

The way you do this is to conduct yourself in a way that you can proud of and that you won’t regret later. You don’t want to act in a way that will push your husband further away from you. At the same time, you don’t want to be a pushover either.

As you can see, this is a delicate dance. You have to strike a balance between communicating with your husband and making him understand that you love him, don’t want him to leave, and want to make saving the marriage a high priority and having enough respect for yourself to not compromise your self respect and dignity.

The truth is, you will appear much more attractive to your husband if you retain your self esteem and self worth. You can still love your husband and go out and see your friends or do whatever it is that makes you happy and fulfilled without groveling. This will put you in a better emotional place and will likely peak your husband’s interest rather than affirming he really wants to go.

Sometimes, I have women approach me and say their husband wants to leave and he just will not talk with them at all or has completely shut them out because of a major fight or issue. Believe it or not, the process is still the same. You conduct yourself in a positive manner, do the things that will invoke positive feelings in both yourself and your spouse, and take baby steps until you’re husband is receptive again.

In some instances - when it’s clear the husband is dead set on leaving and is not going to change his mind, it’s best to just agree with your husband that the marriage has problems and if he really thinks he needs a break, then agree that you’d like the time to work on yourself as well. This will help to minimize a lot of the tension and distance. Hopefully, as the tension lessens you’re husband will have no reason to avoid or reject you. You’re also retaining your dignity and power, which is hugely important in this situation.

I had to use this approach when I trying to save my marriage (and was the only one who wanted to). I made a lot of mistakes, but eventually I was able to change course and regain my husband’s interest. Over time (and taking calculated baby steps), I was able to reestablish intimacy and bring back his love. You can read my very personal story on my blog at http://you-can-save-your-marriage.blogspot.com/

As women we all have amazing intuition when it comes to our husbands. Even if we don’t realize it at first, we can often tell when something is wrong even before he brings it up. This is typically the case when a wife starts feeling as if her husband is losing interest in her. Although intuition is a great starting point there are some concrete signs that he doesn’t love you anymore that all married women should be aware of.

One of the most obvious signs he doesn’t love you anymore is how often he says it. Chances are that when you two first married, he never needed a reminder to say it. Over time the frequency of his declaring his love for you can change, but he’ll still make a point of saying it from time-to-time. If you have to always say it first and then wait for him to say “me too” he’s likely feeling more distant emotionally from you.

The amount of time your husband wants to spend with you can also give you some insight into how he’s feeling. If he would rather hang out on the sofa and watch television or spend time on his computer that’s telling. This is one of the signs he doesn’t love you anymore that you can really watch for. Take note over the next week of how much effort he’s putting into being with you.

Not only is there a clue in how much time he spends with you but the frequency of your intimate time together is also important. One of the signs he doesn’t love you as much now as he did before is a loss of interest in love making. Despite all the jokes written about women losing their interest in intimacy after marriage, men are guilty of it as well. When a man doesn’t feel as emotionally connected to his wife anymore, he’ll lose interest in her physically. Take into account how often you two have been together in this way over the past few months. If the frequency has been declining that’s something that shouldn’t be ignored.

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What should you do to save a marriage? How can you avoid divorce? There is a way to save your relationship but it may not be what you think! Here’s an overview of how countless marriages have avoided a descent into divorce.

I know it seems bad right now. Things are not working out the way the two of you had planned. It’s becoming increasingly clear that there are major problems in your relationship and the ugly specter of divorce is beginning to edge its way into the picture. This is a tough time. Things might seem hopeless.

The idea of saving your marriage–of bringing back the loving partnership you always wanted–may seem almost impossible right now.

But it shouldn’t.

Amazingly, even relationships in dire straits can be saved if at least one of the spouses involved is willing to take action. That’s right, you don’t even necessarily need both halves of the marriage to be actively involved in initiating the “repair”. One expert in the field likens marriage to the kinds of equations we did in algebra class–if you change the values on one side of the equation, the ones on the other side are compelled to change, too.

And that little kernel of truth is the essential clue in terms of figuring out what you should do to save a marriage. It’s simple and it may seem like a long-shot right now, but the trick to getting the marriage you deserve can be distilled down into a single word: Action.

If you’re willing to do something, you’re still able to save your marriage.

Your relationship is not doomed. Even if you’re the only one interested in making things work, you can save your marriage.

By following a smart, professional and proven plan designed to effectively save a marriage, you can make your relationship much stronger and better than it has ever been!

What you may not know is that being more romantic can teach you all about how to save marriage. Love is actually one of the greatest bonds ever, and it can make married couples stay close and happy. It is natural for you to be anxious whenever trials are trying to rock the boat of your otherwise blissful marriage.

It is important that you seek out the root of problems once you realize that your marriage is no longer working out. Bringing the feeling of love and affection back into the relationship is essential. Problems in marriage may arise due to unfaithfulness and detachment.

You should be able to bring the romance back into the union. This is very important in maintaining long term relationships such as marriage. Going on a romantic vacation can be very refreshing for any couple. You can also try having dinner together more often. Sending each other letters and poetry can also spark passion and romance back.

These poems are basically all about how to save marriage. You can use these literary creations to be more open to your partner about conflicting feelings of love, pain, and misunderstanding. Being upfront can be uncomfortable which is why poems are always a better idea.

Indeed, you can send love quotes and poetry through your mobile phone. Through text messages, you will be able to communicate your emotions to your spouse better. Writing such poetry need not be too long, in fact one stanza may do. As long as you write from the heart and from your inner passions, you don’t have to worry about following any literary guidelines. What’s important is that you are able to impart messages of love through your creative compositions.

For instance, you can start the poetry by praising or appreciating the good qualities of your spouse. Doing it more romantically, you can talk about his or her physical nature, character, and assets. You also have to include the importance of his/her presence in your life. By doing this, you allow your spouse to feel the love and appreciation that you have.

Even if you are not inherently gifted with literary prowess, you can still make pretty poetry for your spouse. You will be able to find many poetry publications from the right sources. Quoting the poems of world famous poets is enough to impart to your spouse the message of love and affection. The goal for this after all is to let your partner realize that the relationship is still alive with so much feeling.

Poetry of love and passion can be used to bring the feeling back into your troubled relationship. These love poems and quotes are all about how to save marriage for good and everlastingly.

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Trying to save a marriage can be frustrating and depressing. Especially when you feel that your marriage is about to end. So, what I’m going to do is share with you some effective ways to save a marriage. That way, you will be able to have a happy marriage.

The effective ways to save your marriage are:

1. The first thing you have to do to save your marriage is to figure out what’s going wrong between you and your spouse. You and your spouse need to come together and figure out why your marriage is broken. Did one of you cheat? Is the romance gone?

After you and your spouse figure out what went wrong, you and your spouse should come together and come up with solutions to the problems. This is perfect for getting you and your spouse working together to save your marriage.

2. Another way to save a marriage is to go on a date with your spouse. You might need to spice up your relationship. You could have a candle lit dinner. Or ask your spouse want they would like to do. Going out will help you and your spouse add romance to the marriage.

3. Listing the things you like about your spouse is another way to save your marriage. You and your spouse should make a list of everything that you two like about each other. When you do this, you two will fall in love with each other all over again.

These are some of the effective ways to save a marriage. If you are serious about saving your marriage, you need to do something about it now. If you don’t do something now, you could be served divorce papers and have to face a nasty divorce.

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If your marriage is on the verge of falling apart, you can feel like there is nothing left to do to save the relationship. After all, you have talked and talked until you are blue. But have you really done all you can do? Sometimes actions speak louder than words and a change in attitude from the negative to the positive can make a world of difference in your marriage as well.

You have heard it many times before but communication is very important in any marriage. However, communication does not always need to be verbal. There are many other ways to communicate such as through your actions.

Your spouse needs to know that you love and care for him or her. You can of course say it a thousand times a day but if your actions do not show love, will your words be believable? The things you can do to show your spouse how much he or she is loved are numerous and can range from the smallest little act of kindness to something grand. Some of the ways you can show your love are:

* A quick hug or kiss
* Reach out and rub an arm or shoulder as you pass through a room
* Look into your partner’s eyes and really listen when he or she is speaking
* Do a chore for your spouse that he or she normally does
* Put a little “I love you” note in his briefcase or her purse.
* Get a small gift (a chocolate bar normally works well for women)

Of course, there are so many other things you can do, so use your imagination. You can probably come up with a huge list!

Your attitude will play a large part in your relationship as well. If you are generally negative about everything, you will have negative experiences. Look for the good and positive in your spouse and marriage. Most people are drawn to others who have a positive outlook on life, yet end to want to stay away from those who are negative all the time.

Now, there are times when just your actions and attitude are not enough to save your marriage, such as infidelity, abuse and addictions. However, there is still a help available, even in these cases.

Don’t let your marriage slip from your grasp… Learn how to resolve your damaging conflicts and rebuild the lost love to save your marriage today. You can get started saving your marriage in the next 10 minutes. Go to http://www.marriagenotdivorce.com now to help save your marriage and stop divorce.